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In
this section of the newsletter,
P.M.H. Atwater will
answer questions submitted to her from subscribers to this
newsletter.
Atwater's contribution to near-death studies is considered
to be one of the most important as her first two books,
Beyond the Light
and
Coming Back to Life,
are
considered to be the "Bibles" of the NDE by researchers and
enthusiasts.
If you have a question which you would like her to
answer for this column, just email your question to Kevin
Williams at
http://www.near-death.com/contact.html for consideration.
Atwater's latest book is entitled
The New Children and Near-Death Experiences
and is now available. In the Summer of 2004, her next book
entitled
We Live Forever: The Real Truth About Death will be
released but you can order a reserve copy now.
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QUESTION:
My husband and myself are both near-death experiencers. I wish to give you our
deepest gratitude for your research on NDEs and the
aftereffects. We have been spared much despair as a result.
We also have a daughter, born in 1986 ... she's one of the
Millennium Kids. We also deeply thank you for researching
these kids. Our own NDEs could not fully prepare us for this
incredible child! Who is now 17 years and the apple of our
eye! Your research helped us not only to understand what we
were going through, but also our daughter's unique
characteristics.
I have thought to write you
in the past. Now, I feel I need qualified advice. Both
my husband and I have experienced, for lack of better
words, people from the dark side? literally zeroing in
on us. This has gone on since our NDEs. I realize it
seems to be a taboo topic. Are we unique in this? I will
say we have learned a lot over the past 23 years since
this first began. We have been psychically attacked ...
our family members have, etc. We have even been verbally
told by a couple of them, face to face. It isn't that
we're afraid. Oh, we were, but that was some time back.
We just would like to know if others encounter this
also? Is this an unspoken aftereffect? I realize your
reputation is at stake to write me back, or to even
enter into this. I would not desire to place that burden
on you. It you have the time, then perhaps you could
just write back that others have reported this
occurrence? Would that help? It sure would help us to
know that we are not the only ones, as this has
attempted to occur again through a deceptive
association, and ill discernment on my part. With much gratitude --
Cynthia
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P.M.H.
Atwater's answer:
People mean different things when they talk about "the dark side." Some refer to
psychic residue they feel around them that is uncomfortable or cold or
irritating. Some refer to etheric forms, beings, or disincarnates of the more
threatening type who are invisible to our physical eyes, yet
are sometimes seen or heard by those more sensitive and with
the ability to do so. Still others refer to people in their
environment who seem negative or hurtful, even folks far
away whom they have never met or heard of who attack them
without provocation and for the express purpose of harm.
We don't have "spam
blockers" for this, like those we can install in our
computers, yet in a way we do indeed have forms of
protection that can work like a spam blocker.
Before I talk about how we
can protect ourselves, I first want to say a few things.
Anyone who has undergone a near-death experience, or any
type of transformation of consciousness that changed
them in substantial ways - is more sensitive that ever
before to the vast array of sensations and input we can
receive - and from greater frequencies of the
electromagnetic spectrum - than they were used to, even
multiple
transmissions. This can be confusing. It can also be
frightening, depending on the individual.
What we in research term
"increased psychic abilities" and more "psychic
phenomena," often are simply words used to indicate that
the faculties of experiencers have expanded and
enlarged. These people pick up more because they are now
more open and receptive. Some people are born with this
sensitivity.
I have always recommended
that classes in how to develop and control psychic
ability are helpful, the more the better IF from
qualified teachers who are moral, ethical, and with a
strong spiritual dedicated to service.
The A.R.E.
(Association For Research and Enlightenment, 215 - 67th
Street, Virginia Beach, VA 23451-2061; 1-800-333-4499)
is a wonderful place to begin. Everything they offer is
tested, positive, and uplifting. There are many other
places to "plug in." As in the business world, "buyer
beware." That means it is up to you to check these
people out, investigate resumes and testimonials. Then
use the "heart test." If you feel uncomfortable around
any teacher, have warning dreams about attending that
class, or for any reason feel that being there is not
right for you - leave! Don't allow peer pressure or
guilt to keep you there. Don't put yourself in a
position to be "sold" by a charismatic personality. If
being there does feel right, stay and learn all that you
can. It takes years. One class will not do the job. The
subject is a big one and you want a good introduction
and ample opportunity to test and experiment. What works
for others in not enough. You want to learn what will
work for you. (There are many good books out now and
audio tapes that will be helpful in your quest.)
When it comes to psychic attacks, well, that's another
matter. The old saying, "No one can hurt you unless you
let them" has a lot of truth in it. But, perhaps not in
the way we think it does. The truth lies in your own
sense of self: how self-confidant and assured you feel,
how willing you are to always check your own inner
guidance before you commit to anything, your dedication
to always put God first in "ordering" your day,
affirming and knowing that Divine Guidance is always
available and that you can use that Guidance by invoking
its reality. The best protection a sensitive person has,
in my opinion, is a lifetime dedicated to the highest
and best they are capable of attaining, based on Divine
Order - maintained, nourished, and refined through daily
meditation and prayer. Develop the inner life by
choosing the inner journey, to the wellspring of wisdom
within you, your heart of hearts, the core of your Holy
of Holies, God. There is no substitute for the maturity
and joy and peace this brings.
In saying this, I want to
be fully honest and state that anyone can be brought
down; anyone can be tricked, anyone an be felled by
those who are dedicated to the "darkness" of ego and the
lesser mind of thinking their religion or their belief
demands that they judge others who do not conform to
their idea of "perfection" or "perfect action/response."
I have been personally attacked by such people and with
such psychic force that I instantly developed the worst
case of flu I have ever had and was sick abed for three
weeks before the cause could be isolated and removed.
Pure possession, plain and simple. Cursing another,
rituals or "spells" to destroy or hurt another, praying
for another's ill-fortune, causing a series of
circumstances to occur that will harm, planting the
intention of accident or illness in another's mind or
life path ... all of this sets up the stage for
possession ... either via an invisible "intruder" or
through the intervention of an individual who lies or
curses on purpose. When anything like this occurs, call
on others for help. I did. I called on my doctor because
he is knowledgeable about such things, and I notified
every prayer group and got on every prayer list I could.
This did the job.
What came next for me was a
step that was mine to take. I asked myself, what can I
learn from this? Where is the gift? Always, always,
always, we must take that next step - otherwise we are
vulnerable to something like this happening again. You
are in charge. It is your life. And nothing and no one
can hurt you without your permission. In my own case, I
was very tired when the psychic attack occurred. That
weakened me and made me more vulnerable than usual. I
wasn't paying attention to my own inner growth or inner
status, and was taking for granted that daily prayer and
meditation was enough. I was in essence "zoning off" and
becoming lazy and over-confidant. The attack incident
was an incredible gift to me, and I thank the people who
did it. I forgive them and myself. I forgive the
situation and what I went through. The incident enabled
me to reassess my sense of spirituality and how I felt
about people who thought differently than I do. It
enabled me to "wake up" in how I felt about my life and
my dedication to service. Was I coming from ego or
spirit? Was I willing to continue speaking up, taking a
stand, or cower into retirement and non-involvement? and
at what range of vibration, what intention level, was I
willing to encompass and embrace my own inner journey?
The psychic attack for me
became a rich and rewarding opportunity to "look again"
at where I was versus where I wanted to be. From that
incident came a understanding for me on the power of
surrender and what it really meant spiritually and in my
life.
I invite all of you to begin
your inner journey, take classes taught by mature and
honest teachers on inner development, and include in
your learning "package" many opportunities to explore
spirituality, what Deity means to you, your sense of
"Self" and the life you have been given. The more you
embrace what is possible for you to attain, the less you
will be bothered by those who prefer to have someone
else do their thinking for them. Remember, a follower
will never learn. Take the best you can find and apply
it. God can do no more for you than through you. I love
that old saying that offers this advice: "Do not follow
where the path leads. Rather go where there is no path,
and blaze a trail."
The "dark side" is just the
reverse of the "light side." Real lasting power lies in
the fulcrum, the middle - the third way. (To read up
about Third Way principles, I invite you to obtain a
copy of my book,
Future Memory. Don't forget, though, that "Future
Memory" is actually a labyrinth - the only book I have
ever written that is mathematically calculated on the
format of a labyrinth. Every sentence, every paragraph,
every page is part of the math. And, like with a site
labyrinth, you journey through its pages by staying "on
the path" - no skipping around or reading the last
first. The material will constantly enfold on you.
Reading it straight through will allow you to move up in
consciousness to the next highest level possible for you
at that time. That is what a labyrinth does ... that is
why it heals.)
Many blessings,
P. M. H. Atwater, L.H.D., Ph.D.
www.cinemind.com/atwater
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