Deathbed
visions (DBV) are a different phenomenon than
after-death visitations. After-death visitations are visions of
deceased loved one(s) by people who are not near death. DBVs usually
occur when someone is very close to death and they see visions of
deceased loved ones who greet them to help the dying make the transition
of death. These experiences can even take the form of a near-death
experience. DBVs can occur even days before a person dies. Many
terminally ill people will experience these visitations to help prepare
them for when they cross over to the other side. DBVs also occur to
family members in the vicinity of a dying loved one to reassure them
that their dying loved one will be safe and will live on.
Carla Wills-Brandon
has researched, in depth, the universal phenomenon of the DBV and has
included her findings in her book,
One Last Hug Before I Go. Complete with her own personal encounters,
and those of numerous other DBV experiencers, this revolutionary work
explores DBVs throughout history, from ancient Egypt to modern-day
America. Through the visions and experiences common to all dying people,
you will learn more about the spiritual journey that begins with death.
According to recent studies, only about 10% of people are conscious
shortly before their death. Of this group, 50% to 67% have DBVs.
The following are excerpts from Dr. Carla Wills-Brandon's excellent
book, One Last Hug Before I Go, reprinted by permission. Also
included are examples from Melvin
Morse's book,
Parting Visions, his research on DBVs.
Early Examples of Deathbed Visions
Although DBVs can be found in the literature and lore of all ages,
they were rarely mentioned in the scientific literature until the late
1920's when they were studied by
Sir William Barrett, a physics professor at the Royal College of
Science in Dublin.
He would never have considered examining such a topic had it not been
for an experience told to him by his wife, an obstetrical surgeon. On
the night of January 12, 1924, she arrived home from the hospital eager
to tell her husband about a case she had had that day.
She had been called into the operating room to deliver the child of a
woman named Doris
(her last name was withheld from the written report). Although
the child was born healthy, Doris was dying from a hemorrhage. As the
doctors waited helplessly next to the dying woman, she began to see
things. As Lady Barrett tells it:
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Suddenly she looked eagerly towards part of the room, a radiant
smile illuminating her whole countenance. |
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"Oh, lovely, lovely," she said. |
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asked, "What is lovely?" |
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"What I see," she replied in low, intense tones. |
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"What do you see?" |
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"Lovely brightness - wonderful beings." |
It is difficult to
describe the sense of reality conveyed by her intense absorption in the
vision. Then - seeming to focus her attention more intently on one place
for a moment - she exclaimed, almost with a kind of joyous cry:
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"Why, it's Father! Oh, he's so glad I'm coming; he is so glad. It
would be perfect if only W.
(her husband) would come too." |
Her baby was brought for her
to see. She looked at it with interest, and then said:
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"Do you think I ought to stay for baby's sake?" |
Then, turning toward the
vision again, she said:
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"I can't - I can't stay; if you could see what I do, you would
know I can't stay." |
Although the story thus far was compelling, skeptics could still argue
that it was nothing more than a hallucination due to lack of blood or
triggered by fear of death. Indeed Sir William Barrett may have made
that very point to his wife. Then he heard the rest of the story. It
seems that the sister of Doris, Vida, had died only three weeks earlier.
Since Doris was in such delicate condition, the death of her beloved
sister was kept a secret from her. That is why the final part of her
deathbed vision was so amazing to Barrett.
She spoke to her father, saying:
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"I
am coming," turning at the same time to look at me, saying, "Oh,
he is so near." |
On looking at the same place
again, she said with a rather puzzled expression:
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"He has Vida with him," turning again to me saying, "Vida is with
him." |
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Then she said, "You do want me, Dad; I am coming." |
Could all this have merely been wish fulfillment expressed in the form
of a hallucination? Barrett considered such an explanation, but he
rejected it because among the apparitions of the dead was someone whom
Doris had not expected to see. Her sister, Vida, had died three weeks
before. This explains why Doris was a bit surprised when she saw her
sister. This story was so inspirational to Barrett that he undertook a
systematic study of deathbed visions. His was the first scientific study
to conclude that the mind of the dying patient is often clear and
rational. He also reported a number of cases in which medical personnel
or relatives present shared the dying patient's vision.
The work of Sir William Barrett did not contribute to the theory that
these visions were a form of wish fulfillment. In fact the deathbed
vision often did not portray the type of afterlife the dying expected.
For example, Barrett reported several children who were disappointed to
see angels with no wings. In one such case he described a dying girl who
sat up suddenly in her bed and said, "Angels, I see angels." Then the
girl was puzzled. "Why aren't they wearing wings?" If deathbed visions
were simply a fantasy of the mind, says Barrett, why did this little
girl see something different from her expectations?
John's Preview of Heaven
John was an eleven-year-old patient of Melvin Morse who was dying of
lymphoma. In his last days, he was hospitalized with severe, untreatable
pneumonia. Though he was having difficulty breathing and was in constant
pain, he was given very few drugs such as morphine and Valium because
they made breathing more difficult.
Three days before John died, a circle of loved ones gathered around
his bed. They were startled when John suddenly sat upright and announced
that Jesus was in the room. He then asked for everyone to pray for him.
At about three a.m., John sat up again, startling the four people who
had gathered around the bed to pray.
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"There are beautiful colors in the sky!" he shouted. "There are
beautiful colors and more colors. You can double jump up here,
double jump!" |
At four a.m. an extraordinary event occurred. They were joined by a
woman who said that she had received a strong premonition that she had
to visit John right away. She was not known to John's parents, but her
son was a playmate of John's. She had no explanation for why she would
suddenly visit John at four a.m. except to explain that she had had a
vivid dream about John and had felt a need to visit him that was
overpowering.
By dawn, it seemed that life was almost over for John. His breathing
was labored, and his heart was pounding like that of a marathon
runner's. Even then, little John had more to communicate. Opening his
eyes wide, he asked his grieving parents to "let me go."
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"Don't be afraid," he said. "I've seen God, angels, and
shepherds. I see the white horse." |
As sick as he was, John still begged his family not to feel sorry for
him. He had seen where he was going, and it was a joyous and wondrous
place.
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"It's wonderful. It's beautiful," he said, his hand held out in
front of him. |
Soon he laid back and fell asleep. John never regained consciousness
and died two days later.
John's visions and the incidents surrounding them intrigued Dr. Morse.
John's mother believes that through God's mediation, John communicated
with his friend's mother. Although she knew he had been hospitalized, it
was during the period of his most powerful visions that she had her
vision of John. Although Dr. Morse has nothing scientific to base it on,
Dr. Morse believes coincidence was too great for these periods of
vision activity not to be connected in some way.
It's My Time to Die
The following deathbed account was told to Melvin Morse by a physician
in Utah.
A five-year-old boy was in a coma, dying from a malignant brain tumor.
He had been in the coma for three weeks and was surrounded almost the
entire time by his family. They encircled his bed and prayed constantly
for his recovery, taking only brief breaks to eat and rest.
At the end of the third week, the pastor of the family's church came
into the hospital room and told them a remarkable story. He'd had a
dream, he said, in which the boy told him:
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"It's my time to die. You must tell my parents to quit praying.
I am supposed to go now." |
The pastor was nervous about delivering this message to the family.
Still, he said, it was a message too vivid to ignore.
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"It's as though he was right there in the room, talking to me
face to face." |
The family members accepted the minister's dream as a message from
their son. They prayed, they touched his comatose body, and they told
him that he would be missed, but he had permission to die.
Suddenly, the boy regained consciousness. He thanked his family for
letting him go and told them he would be dying soon. He died the next
day.
Perhaps the most important aspect of this story is its cathartic
nature. This family was allowed to assuage its grief because they knew
that their son was ready to die. Their resentment of life's process and
of God's will was replaced by the assurance that something mystical had
taken place.
It Felt So Good
The following report comes from Carla Wills-Brandon's research and
provides us with a beautiful example of how medical personnel can use
these visions to positively assist in the dying process. Our son passed over on August 4, 1997. I believe he did have deathbed
visions. The first one happened after he had a seizure. His heart
stopped, and after he came back to life, he seemed all right. But then
he looked at me and said:
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"Mom, what happened to me?" |
I didn't want to scare
him, so I told him he had fainted. He replied:
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"Whatever happened to me was wonderful! It felt so good! I liked
that!" |
When my husband visited
with the doctor he told him what our son had said. The doctor said to
him:
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"You do know that what your son experienced was a near-death
experience." |
When the second vision took place, my son had been unconscious for over
an hour. Suddenly, he sat up in an upright position! This happened very
quickly. We were so shocked, we didn't say a word to him. We thought,
"My God, he came out of it!" so we just sat and stared.
He looked toward the foot of his bed and then up. He was looking as
though he were seeing more than one person. He turned his head slightly
from side to side. The look on his face was like he was confused with
what he was staring at. Then, after a few minutes, he laid back down and
looked very peaceful. He returned to his unconscious state and at this
point all we could do was hold him. Not long after that, our son went
into cardiac arrest and passed on. |