was just reading
comment on "soul merge" and I had experienced
this when I was in my 30's. My boyfriend died of
a brain tumor and I had so many things I did not
get to tell him because it happened so quickly and
I never knew what was wrong with him until one day
when the doctors said it was a tumor and they were
doing surgery right away. Well, he died in surgery
and I was devastated! I could not eat and just cried
all the time saying over and over out loud that
if only he knew the truth about a personal matter
Well, after about couple
months of this one night, I had just laid down in
bed and I was on my back and crying as usual and
repeating to my self in a prayer that he would hear
my last words. All of a sudden my body lifted up
to the ceiling and my real body was lying in bed
yet I was up above and he met me there. Took my
hands and merged with me. It was the most wonderful
experience I have ever had. It is indescribable.
I just know after we separated
again he knew everything about me that would have
took years to tell someone and this took like a
minute. I also knew everything he ever wanted to
tell me in seconds. It was so peaceful and relaxing,
Next I remember going
back into my body and I rolled over and slept till
morning. I don't know why I slept right afterwards,
but I know I was awake and it was not a dream. It
really happened to me and from that day on, I woke
up feeling like the world was lifted off my shoulders.
I was happy again and I knew he knew everything
I needed to tell him. He filled me with this unbelievable
joy and it is a memory I will never forget.
I am not sure, but I think
he was my twin soul or something, and we had to
be separate to grow. I never see anything on this
subject and was so surprised to see an article on
this in Betty's site on the internet. Do you know
anymore on this happening that you could fill me
in. I would appreciate anything on the subject as
I can't find books on this or anything. Thanks for
your time and Bless you.
sounds like you definitely had an
(ADC) of your boyfriend in the form of an out-of-body
experience. I have read a lot about these kind of
experiences and how unusual things often happen
before and after a loved one passes away. But it
wasn't until I experienced profound after-death
communications from my mother after she passed away
that I was forever convinced that contact with the
Other Side is possible.
Concerning the topic of
soul merge, it is a phenomenon that appears often
in NDEs. Usually, it happens when the experiencer
merges fully into the light of God and the experience
feels as though they have "become God",
that is, knowing all things and being aware of all
things and feeling all the love that exists with
some information from my website on the topic of
On Marriage and Unions
on the Other Side
are unions of souls on the other side, and marriage
as such is optional. If couples prefer to remain
together they may do so, as long as their interests
and growth are taking them in the same direction.
If they choose to go in different directions, there
are no hurt feelings. There is no possessiveness
or demands. You are free to go your own way, in
your own time, at your own choosing.
Married couples will be
reunited after death, and may choose to stay together
if they want to, provided they are on the same level
of vibration. This is free will. If you have been
married three or four times, you will find that
you will want to be with the one whom you truly
love. It could even be someone from another incarnation.
You will be with those you love, and there is a
total merger which is a much higher experience and
a deeper love bond than anything you can know on
the Earth plane.
This total merger is like
stepping inside one another's auras, a total blending
of energies. It's a way of expressing love and sharing.
What you know on Earth as a sexual relationship
takes the form of a higher merger of souls. There
is no need for sexual organs on the other side unless
you choose to have them. For this merger of energies
is far superior to the physical mechanics of the
sexual experience. This merger is not limited to
husbands and wives, but may be experienced by any
two souls who are loving and caring.
plan for the soul is a cycle of experience that
is unlimited in scope and duration. Through this
evolutionary cycle, the soul will come to know the
creation in all its aspects at the discretion of
the will. The cycle would be completed when the
desire of the will was no longer different from
the thought of God. The consciousness of the soul
would then merge with its spiritual consciousness
of its identity with God. Then the soul will return
to its source as the companion it was intended to
As a companion, the soul
would remain conscious of its separate individuality
and would be aware of its own free will as it now
acted as a part of God, but not diverting its mind
because it was in agreement with God's influence
on the mind of the soul. Until this state of at-one-ment
was reached, the soul would not be a companion in
the true sense of the word.
The idea that returning
to God means a loss of individuality is paradoxical,
since God is aware of everything that happens and
must therefore be aware of the consciousness of
each individual. The return of the soul is the return
of the image to that which imagined it. The consciousness
of the individual - its soul record - could not
be destroyed without destroying a part of God. When
a soul returns to God it becomes aware of itself
not only as a part of God, but as a part of every
other soul, and everything.
What is lost is the ego
- the desire to do other than the desire of God.
When the soul returns to God, the ego is voluntarily
relinquished. This is the symbology behind the crucifixion
The plan for the Earth
cycle of souls was a limited series of incarnations
with periods in between of dwelling in other heavenly
dimensions of consciousness. Reincarnation would
continue until a soul's every thought and action
of the physical body was in accord with the plan
originally laid out for the soul (i.e., a human-divine
unity, Christ consciousness). When the body was
no longer a hindrance to the free expression of
the soul - when the conscious mind had merged with
the subconscious, the Earth cycle was finished and
the soul liberated to move on to new adventures.
When the individual has
attained complete human-divine unity, its cycle
of reincarnations is finished, the soul is liberated,
and the soul then merges with its spirit and, therefore,
with God. The soul record (memory) is forever retained.
This record is, at all times, is the sum total of
what the soul personality has been: all it has thought,
all it has experienced; all it has eaten, drunk,
and felt through the ages.
Thus, as the soul is subjected
to reincarnation, both the atheist and the religionist
are correct. The atheist believes the personality
does not survive after death. The religionist believes
the soul is judged after death by its Creator. Substituting "personality"
for "soul", both are expressing the truth.
The personality is evaluated after death and then
returns to the soul which created it, thereby giving
up its own independent existence and becoming once
again a facet of the soul. This process is different
from the process where the soul merges with the
spirit after it completes its cycles of reincarnation.
you enter into the light and blend with God, you
become God. God is light and light is love. You
can't take a knife and cut out a part of love and
take it away. If you theoretically cut love in half
and take it, there's not half love here and half
love there. Each part is wholly God.
The incomprehensible part
is at that point at which you no longer exist and
you become only light when you fully merge with
the light. This is because the character and the
characteristics that you are, the uniqueness that
is you and nobody else, still exists when you cease
to exist as a personality. But every bit of your
personality is available for reincarnation. That's
the paradox part.
I just kind of became
little photons of light and there is only the slightest
of memories of anything after that. Even though
I was in my soul body, not my physical body, that
which I was before the light blended in and ceased
to exist. In other words, if you have pure light
you have all of the masses of photons in the universe
in a purified state only white light. One of the
last things I can recall is that I was blending
into and becoming homogeneous with that light. I
had the feeling of the light just engulfing me.
About the only accurate word that I can use to describe
what I felt then is the word "power."
But it wasn't an earthly type of power, it wasn't
greedy power, or an I'm-better-than-you-power.
One of the purposes of
the life review is to make an informed choice between
remaining in spirit and returning to flesh. Should
we choose to merge completely with the light of
God, we will never again be able to choose, on our
own decision, to return to physical life. The decision
to merge in the light is the best decision.
If a person dies and merges
completely into the light, another reincarnation
is improbable. However, it is more usual for people
to have earthly attachments and not merge completely
with the light. Such souls may have characteristics
of their personality, which they do not want merged
with the light.
teach a shamanic-style guided visualization that
enables an individual to find and to recognize their
Holy of Holies, their Center where the True Self
resides. This goes for everyone; we all have that
conduit, that channel, that "launch-pad,"
that place from which we touch the "Hand of
God" in the sense of how we are affected once
we align and/or merge with our soul.
I truly believe that soul
discovery is the over-riding reason or purpose behind
spiritual development ... so we, in this lifetime,
can be more mindful of who we really are and can
align our will with God's Will. When this occurs,
we can merge more and more with the power of our
own soul. You see this in cases of near-death experiences
and deathbed visions, NOT that there is a split-off
at death (the personality self sloughing off with
the body or as an egoic being having some sort of
existence by itself - as some researchers claim);
but, rather, that at death the soul and the ego
(personality) merge into each other and become one
again. It's like at birth, a "finger"
of the soul drops down into the body, to properly
animate it so the ego personality can develop and
grow. It's the ego that seems to "feed"
the soul, in the sense of what can be learned, experienced,
given, and received during a lifetime. It is the
soul that seems to be the major "player"
in the outworking of God's Greater Plan. To use
an analogy, we humans are like worker bees, the
soul that guiding intelligence which keeps us on
track, and God that which provides the environment
and the power source in which we can not only learn
and grow - but transcend that which seems to limit
us, so we can "awaken" to a higher reality
and a grander view. We can then realize there really
is no separation, no distinction of three in one,
but One - All in One. You could look at this situation
yet another way: One Mind, many thinkers.
What impresses me, however,
is the extent to which the dying of any age can
and oft times do merge into their own soul as they
cast aside the physical body in death. This merging,
this becoming more of what we really are, a soul,
is one of the higher goals of any spiritual calling
or religious ritual. It's what undergirds the practice
of prayer and meditation. It's a large part of what
makes the sacred, sacred. Our goal, as near as I
can tell, is to link more with that perfect part
of us, that Higher Self, True Self, that is still
connected to God in the sense that it never separated
from The Godhead, and to do this while alive and
actively engaged with our fellows. As we become
more spiritual in our lives, make better choices,
are more responsible and caring and loving, we open
ourselves to the energy of the soul - its reality
and its power - and its goal of carrying out God's
Greater Plan. The soul, our soul, encourages us
to become more of what we really are in the truer
sense, divine beings here to learn, grow, discover,
experience, and transform - so what we project (who
we think we are) matches more closely with our true
identity (what we really are). Again and again,
near-death experiencers, when describing their scenario,
actually depict that mergence, and they certainly
talk long and lovingly about their true self, their
true identity, their soul. At the deathbed, merging
into our soul, joining with the divine, becomes
saw that we were indeed made in the image of God,
which is an essence taken from the Creator's own
LIGHT. It is because of this Light that we can never
die. Every single child of God carries this Light
within their Soul, and we call this Light, Spirit.
As we learn how to LOVE, we build the Light of Spirit
within. A day will come (in a time not so far away)
when all of our Light(s) will have become so large
that we will merge and go back to the Creator and
be as ONE -- just as we were in the beginning. Once
we are ONE again, there will be a great celebration.
And after a certain amount of time has passed, yet
again, there will be another great explosion, only
this time it will be much bigger and the process
of Creation will be far more advanced.
couple of nights I took a journey. I don't know
whether Peter felt left out, but each time we had
sex, I left my body and went further and further
As each night I traveled
further and further from my body and the Earth realm,
and the energy got closer, I became aware of the
co-relation with the whole of life itself. I became
in awe of the creative work of God.
Then one night, I came
closer to the energy and as I did, I felt it for
the first time. It was pure love, pure unconditional
love. At this point in my life, I had never seen
myself as a decent person, but this energy spoke
to me in thought and told me that I was a beautiful
person. It told me to let go of the conditioning
that I had of myself as a person with no worth.
The love from this energy
was amazing. It was so profound I sobbed uncontrollably.
My next visit, I got closer
and the same with the next visit. Finally, I was
able to merge with this energy and the bliss, happiness,
incredible peace that I felt inside. This being's
energy was so incredible. I did not want to leave.
It spoke to me in thought
and told me that one day when I had finished my
spiritual development, this energy and I would work
together. However, I had a hard path in front of
me with my development and I was not to give up
for in the long term. It would be worth it. It also
told me that I needed to move toward it slowly,
because, had I not done so, I would have burnt up
within the spirit.
They call the orgasm in
some circles the little death. For me it was a death
and a rebirth. I was never the same after that.
I don't think I will ever change either. It was
the most amazing experience and one I know I will
the stage was gone and I was once again out of time.
I was a witness, observing myself as a child ...
I watched as my innocent child-self ... began to
dance across the meadows.
Then, as I contemplated
this celebration of life, I saw that in a single
turn in my-her waltz, I-she was no longer a child,
but a thirty-five year old woman dancing alone in
the Hofburg Palace ... I was once more in my magical
gown, moving alone in harmony with the MUSIC. In
that moment I chose to merge with that self and
began to dance. Each step drew me closer to the
Then, in a sacred place
somewhere before the light, I found myself being
held, gently rocked, nurtured, and embraced in the
arms of the one I believed to be the presence. Whether
this was a guide, a guardian, a human man who has
the ability to walk between the worlds, or even
an angel, it does not matter. For still today this
memory is alive. The presence vibrates within my
senses and daily infuses my sentient memory archives
with love. I knew then, and remember now, the warmth,
serenity, and comfort I felt as I was embraced in
the arms of a long and still-remembered love. As
I was cradled in this serene embrace, I was bathed
in light. My spirit was imbued with a sense of peace,
and my soul was engraved with the remembrance of
a timeless love...
The light was getting
brighter and warmer as I moved through the tunnel.
The MUSIC, the celestial symphony, continued to
fill the air with a psalm of Oneness, played on
unseen instruments of peace.
I arrived at the pinnacle
and, standing at the entrance to the light, took
a single step, leaving my right footprint imbedded
in Eternity. I entered a sacred space a place where
I knew I had returned to my most essential nature,
where I felt wholly and consciously united with
all things and Source, where a soothing balm of
peace was poured on my spirit by an unseen hand,
an emollient so rich in love that to this day I
cannot fully absorb or comprehend it.
And then, in one ephemeral
glimpse, I saw the Pattern, the single strand of
the tapestry I knew was the essence woven through
matter in every reality. Its design was so complexly
simple that I knew it could only have been fashioned
in the exalted intricacy of infinity.
Seeing the Pattern, I
knew I was looking at life itself. It was light;
it was time and space. It was the energy of all
matter, the heart of all that mattered. It was the
very essence of all being. It emanated from Source,
illuminated to my mind by "the Source behind
the sun" as it moved in perfect harmony with
all the universe. As I prepared to meld into the
Source of light and absolute love, I knew with all
my being that the Pattern was the core of all substance.
I knew that the MUSIC emanating from the Pattern
was the song of my heart, a testament of unconditional
love. The single step I had taken was the first
in a dance that would take me into the single point
of Infinite light, which contained the power of
love that would forever illuminate my mind
and heart. I inhaled and prepared to take the next
step as the exhalation of love, the Life Force of
the Universe, carried me home.
with the light, I am so overcome with gratitude
and overwhelmed by the love that fills me that I
cry. Suddenly, time and space are different again,
and I am momentarily aware of my body. I am aware
that the window to the left of my bed is filled
with vibrant, powerful light. It seems to be calling
me and pulling me toward it like a magnet. I hear
the buzzing again, and ... Whoosh! I'm zooming through
the window! I merge with the light! I am the light,
and the light is me. "From the light we have
come, and to the light we shall all return,"
repeats the voice.
is the traditional Sanskrit term for release or
liberation from the endless chain of deaths and
rebirths. In the southern Asian religious tradition,
it represents the supreme goal of human strivings.
Reflecting the diversity of Hinduism, liberation
can be attained in a variety of ways, from the proper
performance of certain rituals to highly disciplined
forms of yoga. In the Upanishads, it is proper knowledge,
in the sense of insight into the nature of reality,
that enables the aspiring seeker to achieve liberation
from the wheel of rebirth.
What happens to the individual
after reaching moksha? In Upanishadic Hinduism,
the individual Atman is believed to merge into the
cosmic Brahma. A traditional image is that of a
drop of water that, when dropped into the ocean,
loses its individuality and becomes one with the
sea. Although widespread, this metaphor does not
quite capture the significance of this merger. Rather
than losing one's individuality, the Upanishadic
understanding is that the Atman is never separate
from Brahma; hence, individuality is illusory, and
moksha is simply waking up from the dream of separateness.
The most that the classical
texts of Hinduism say about the state of one who
has merged with the godhead is that the person has
become one with pure "beingness," consciousness,
and bliss. From the perspective of world-affirming
Western society, such a static afterlife appears